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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Community Guy - Latest Comments in A potent reminder of the realities of &amp;#8220;social&amp;#8221;</title><link>http://communityguy.disqus.com/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 09:31:53 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: A potent reminder of the realities of &amp;#8220;social&amp;#8221;</title><link>http://www.communityguy.com/1001/a-potent-reminder-of-the-realities-of-social/#comment-1465359</link><description>Many years ago, I attended a Friday night Shabbat service at a synagogue in downtown Chicago.  I was new to the group, so I was trying to be overly friendly and make new friends.  There was one gentleman in the group who intrigued me the most.  He had on a sticker that read, "Shhhh" and when I went up to introduce myself, he smiled and politely handed me a card.  It read "Shabbat Shalom!  I'm on a talking fast.  Please take no offense at my lack of conversation.  Let's talk again tomorrow night."&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Your post reminded me of that card and the idea of a talking fast.  There have been times that I almost wish there was a polite way to put a "I'm okay, I don't need help" pin on that would signal the message to salespeople that I don't need assistance.  People would probably take it as being rude, though, more times than not.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Michael Rubin</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 09:31:53 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>